can i get a much stronger push? like "God wants you to know...go get her you idiot!"

On this day of your life, Tristofer, we believe God wants you to know ... that to love is to be vulnerable.

Love is the opening of the heart, the welcoming of your beloved. Loving is not secure, authentic loving is risky. Security lies behind the walls of a closed heart. You either invite the union by opening in love, or you secure the isolation by closing down.