wakari masen!

one, i dont understand women. two, i dont understand women. and three, i dont understand women! (or maybe i just dont understand humans in general)

makes me wonder why men and women evolved that way. i mean, how come men and women dont think alike. its like their minds are galaxies apart. thats why both sexes (or genders) dont really get each other. and thats why i find the Point-of-View gun in the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy movie a funny idea. its like an unresolvable problem between the sexes and you need some gadget to make the other side understand, or see the true meaning of things from the point of view of the opposite sex.

of course, the simple answer is that, it has to be that way. to make things, or the relationship between the sexes interesting. if men and women had the same thoughts, shared the same point of view, then the world would be boring. i think its the differences between the sexes that makes the whole point of matching with the opposite sex. to finally find a member of the opposite sex that you understand or understands you or at least has the differences you can tolerate or can tolerate you.

but my question really is, how come men and women evolved that way. most likely, its society that shaped the minds of the sexes but still, the fact that society did this could at least make it attributable to evolution. society evolves and the individual that composes such society evolves too. why did men end up thinking the way they think now, and the same goes for women, and not the other way around? thats attributable to society and culture. but how did the men and women composing the early forms of society and culture ended up being that way. thats attributable to the individual men and women. i mean, why do men like this or that, women fancy this or that? how come men dont see things as women do and vice versa? society could have dictated most of it but still, it must have originated from the early human development of individuals. the reason im asking why is because the difference between men and women couldnt have been a coincidence. it has a purpose and thats answerable. my question is how it happened. and im asking because i just want to know how or what circumstances induced the development of such differences. well, to make the argument much more simpler to answer, insert God in the equation. because they just have to be that way. thats the easiest way to answer coincidences. i dont know which field of science states that there's no such thing as coincidence but i think thats one thing they can agree with with some religions. there's no such thing as coincidence in this world, everything has a purpose, a reason to exist or a reason why it happened.